1. Universal Human Value Dorji Thinlay Chief Investigation Officer
Anti-corruption commission
Thimphu Bhutan
ACC Delegation, Maldives & Timor-Leste, July, 2011
5th

2. Nation’s Conscience
Lead by Example
If you Care, You will Dare

3. Exercise on Team Work Brain teaser Conscious invoker X O X O X O
Objective - Score Maximum points. Each straight line scores 5 points. You get 30 seconds, (you need only 15 seconds)

4. Team Work: Competitive
X O X
O X O
Points = 5

5. Team Work: Competitive
O X X
X O O
Points = 5

6. Team Work: Self endeavour
X O X
Points = 15

7. Team Work
X X X
Points = = 30
Excellence

8. Team Work: Supportive
O O O
Points = = 30
Excellence

9. Do we pause for a minute, analyze and think how one could contribute?
Scores, how many scored:
Zero =
Five =
Ten =
Fifteen =
Thirty =
Any other =
We talk about Team Work.
Do we pause for a minute, analyze and think how one could contribute?

10. What is this so called ’Human Value’?

11. Human Conduct or Behaviour based on one’s Natural Acceptance verified on one’s Own Right
What is this Natural Acceptance?

12. Natural Acceptance is :-
- Innate Self
- Inner self
- Natural Self (coming from heart)
- Un-corrupt Self

13. Desire State of Being
We want to be happy We want to be prosperous We want the continuity of happiness and prosperity
Are we happy? Are we prosperous? Is there continuity of our happiness and prosperity?
What is the Ultimate Goal (desire) as a Human Being?

14. Happiness is being in Harmony
Disharmony or Contradiction means (brings) = Unhappiness
Prosperity is Feeling of having more than required Physical Facilities.
Then the feeling of not having more than required Physical Facility = Deprivation.

15. Ingredient for Happiness Prosperity
Living in Harmony with:
Self
Other Self
Family
Society
Nature
Universe
Feeling of having more than required Physical Facilities.
Right Understanding
Correct assessment of need for Physical Facilities.
Right Understanding

16. Ingredient for Happiness Prosperity
Living in Harmony with:
Self
Other Self
Family
Society
Nature
Universe
Feeling of having more than required Physical Facilities.
For continuous happiness & prosperity
Continuous Right Understanding

17. More important dialogue within SELF
Society
Family
Nature
More important dialogue within SELF
Process of dialogue
Universe
Self
Other
self
Self
Self
Self

18. Who is the biggest stranger to you?
Yourself
Who is the biggest stranger to you?

19. How much do we understand self?
Therefore,….
Self
Self
Dialogue within SELF
Dialogue within SELF
How much do we understand self?
How Much???

20. Right Understanding is deficient
Conclusion drawn based on:
Pre-conditioning
Assumption

21. Priority: Right Understanding of Relationship & Physical Facility1
RIGHT UNDERSTANDING
in the self 2
RELATIONSHIP
with human beings 3
PHYSICAL FACILITY
with rest of nature
Feelings
- Trust
- Respect
- …
MUTUAL HAPPINESS
MUTUAL PROSPERITY

22. Priority: Physical Facility?
RIGHT UNDERSTANDING
in the self ?
RELATIONSHIP
with human beings 1
PHYSICAL FACILITY
with rest of nature
UNHAPPINESS (Mutual)
DEPRIVATION (Mutual)
Conflict, fight, war
Exploitation, corruption

23. 9 Feelings in relationship:
1- Trust FOUNDATION VALUE
2- Respect
3- Affection
4- Care
5- Guidance
6- Reverence
7- Glory
8- Gratitude
9- Love COMPLETE VALUE

24. Trust = to be assured
= to have the clarity that the other wants to make me happy & prosperous
When there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the other
Absence of Trust on Intention
= lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & prosperity

25. Evaluating Trust – Between 2 Individuals
Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance 1a. I want to make myself happy 2a. I want to make the other happy 3a. The other wants to make herself/himself happy 4a. The other wants to make me happy
Verify on the basis of your competence 1b. I am able to make myself always happy ? 2b. I am able to make the other always happy ? 3b. The other is able to make herself/himself always happy? 4b. The other is able to make me always happy ?? √ √ √ ?
Intention – Natural Acceptance
What is Naturally Acceptable to Me
Competence
What I am (∑ D, T, E)

26. About the Other About Myself
The other broke a glass The other makes mistakes intentionally The other intended to break the glass – The other is a bad person
The glass broke by accident I make mistakes by accident Even if I make the same mistake 100 times, I never doubt my intention – I always feel I am a good person
I evaluate my self on my intention (2a) ... I conclude “I am good”
I evaluate the other on his competence (4b) ... I conclude “the other is bad”
I conclude about the intention of the other on the basis of his competence ... I doubt his intention
Irritation, anger, condemning the other are indications of doubt on intention
Doubt on intention is a major reason for problems in relationships

27. When there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the other
Absence of Trust on Intention = lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & prosperity

28. Check within yourself
How many persons do you have trust on intention (natural acceptance)
– unconditional, continuous?
If you have unconditional, continuous trust on intention (natural acceptance) of the other and if the other is lacking competence, what will you do:
Try to improve his competence
Get irritated
Get angry
Have a feeling of opposition
This is fundamental. Trust on intention is the foundation of relationship
If Trust on Intention
If Doubt on Intention

29. Respect Respect = Right Evaluation
Over evaluation – to evaluate for more than what it is
Under evaluation – to evaluate for less than what it is
Otherwise evaluation – to evaluate for other than what it is
Whenever the evaluation is not right, it is disrespect
Disrespect 29

30. Respect: Right Evaluation on the basis of the Self (I)
Purpose
I want to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
The other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
Our purpose is similar (on the basis of Natural Acceptance)
Program
My program is to understand and to live in harmony at all levels
The program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all levels
Our program is similar
Potential
Desire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in me. I am endowed with Natural Acceptance
Desire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in the other. The other is also endowed with Natural Acceptance
Our potential is similar
The Other is Similar to Me
Feeling: make him understand
I am committed to facilitate understanding in the other
Do not doubt Intention
I feel related
Doubt his Competency

31. Differentiation Differentiation = Disrespect
Not Naturally Acceptable… Opposition…
Evaluation on the basis of Body, Physical Facility or Beliefs (preconditioning) turns out to be differentiation and therefore disrespect
Differentiation
Body
Physical Facility
Beliefs
Age
Gender
Post
Wealth
Isms
Physical
Strength
Race
Sects
Info 31

32. Self Confidence, Ego & Depression
Right Evaluation
Over Evaluation
Under / Otherwise Evaluation
Self Confidence
Ego
Depression
I am self referential
The other is my reference
Definite Conduct
Indefinite Conduct

33. The unhappiness in your family is
Check within Yourself!
The unhappiness in your family is
More due to lack of physical facility or
More due to lack of fulfillment in relationship?
How much time and effort are you investing:
For physical facility
For fulfillment in relationship
The unhappiness is more due to lack of fulfillment in relationship
Most of the time and effort is spent for physical facility

34. Therefore we can observe two categories of human beings
Lacking physical facility, unhappy deprived
Having physical facility, unhappy deprived

35. Affection The feeling of being related to the other
(acceptance of the other as one’s relative)
One naturally feels related to the other when one has the feelings of Trust and Respect in oneself for the other
Absence of Affection = Opposition, Jealousy

36. Care & Guidance naturally follow Affection
Feeling of responsibility toward the body of my relative The responsibility & commitment for nurturing and protecting the Body of my relative
Feeling of responsibility toward the self(I) of my relative The responsibility & commitment for ensuring Right Understanding and Right Feeling in the self(I) of my relative
Care & Guidance naturally follow Affection 36

37. Reverence The other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide…..
The feeling of acceptance for Excellence
Excellence
Understanding Harmony &
Living in Harmony
The other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide…..
Excellence and competition are not similar.
In excellence, one helps to bring the other to his level
In competition, he hinders the other from reaching to his level
at all 4 levels
In the Self, as an Individual
In Family
In Society
In Nature/Existence

38. Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance if you want to be related to:
None
One
Many
Everyone
Affection – The feeling of being related to the other
(acceptance of the other as one’s relative)
Love – The feeling of being related to all (Complete Value) X
 The feeling of being related to none – in opposition to all √
The feeling of being related to one
The feeling of being related to many
Affection √
Love √
 The feeling of being related to all

39. Program for Continuous Happiness
To understand the Harmony at all levels of our Being
Harmony in the Human Being
Harmony in the Family
Harmony in the Society
Harmony in Nature/Existence
To live in Harmony at all levels of our Being
As an Individual
In Family
In Society
In Nature/Existence
Scope of Understanding
Scope of Living

40. RELATIONSHIP with human beings
Right Understanding
RIGHT UNDERSTANDING
in the self 1
Living in Harmony at all 4 levels:
Individual
Family
Society
Nature/Existence
Living with Human Consciousness
Understanding Harmony:
Harmony in the Individual
Harmony in Family
Harmony in Society
Harmony in Nature/Existence
Living in Harmony at
all 4 levels:
Individual
Family
Society
Nature/Existence 2
RELATIONSHIP with human beings
PHYSICAL FACILITY
with rest of nature 3
MUTUAL HAPPINESS
MUTUAL PROSPERITY
MUTUAL HAPPINESS
MUTUAL PROSPERITY

41. Let’s Living with Human Consciousness Let’s live Prosperously
Let’s live Happily
It only takes Right Understanding