1. Are basically the same for a descent person.

2.  Accepts me for whom I am.

3.  Doesn’t interrupt  Gives full attention  Has attention span longer than a toddler ( 2 minutes)  Stays off electronics  Maintains eye contact

4.  Arrives at places when he/she says he /she is going to arrive  Calls if he/she is going to be late

5.  Addresses me in a respectful way  Does not name call  Does not use profanity

6.  Does not hit  Respects boundaries  Avoids excessive PDA

8.  How often will you see them?  Will you borrow money from them and will you pay it back?  Holidays?

9.  Do you want children?  If so, how many do you want?  What are you feelings about discipline?  Will both work or will one of you stay home?

10.  Do you like your day scheduled or laid back?  How much time and money do you spend on recreation?  What are your three most favorite things to do in your spare time?  How much do you want to socialize with people outside marriage/family?

11.  What are your feelings on PDA?  What affection ought to be displayed in front of children?

12.  What is your belief system?  How important is religion in your life?  How will you raise your children in your beliefs?

13.  How do you feel about credit?  What about saving for retirement, and kids college?  Do you follow a budget?