1. Looking Out/Looking In Fourteenth Edition 2  Describe one of the following with a few words:  Your current moods or feelings  Your current appearance  Your current strong beliefs  Your current social roles

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4. Self-concept is our perceived self Self-image is how we see ourselves Self-esteem is our feelings and attitudes toward ourselves Copyright © 2014, 2011, 2008 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

5. Constantly changing Self perceptions and perceptions others have of us change from Time to time Situation to situation Person to person 5

6. Sensing our environment Parental Communication Others’ communication Copyright © 2014, 2011, 2008 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

7. Values Attitudes Beliefs Broad-based ideals, relatively long- lasting Example: Competent communication makes a successful life. Feelings or positions about ourselves, others, ideas, or objects Example: Competent communicators are more successful. Convictions in the truth of something that lacks absolute truth Example: Competent communication will make one successful.

8. Communication affects our self- concept Our self-concept affects our communication Copyright © 2014, 2011, 2008 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Our perception of how others perceive us affects our self-concept, which affects how we behave, which is directly related to how others react to our behavior, and ends in our interpretation of their reactions (Kinch, 1963). Personal-social identity continuum identifies the personal and social level of self.

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10. Face work: ways we act to maintain our own presenting image and the images of others Individualistic orientation: tendency to stress personal goals and achievements over group goals and achievements Collectivistic orientation: group goals over individual goals 10

11. Self-Fulfilling Prophecy Above-Average effect Impression Management Perceived self Presenting self Facework Copyright © 2014, 2011, 2008 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

12. Sex and Gender Gender Stereotypes Gender Expectations Gender Roles https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkTb3Y1CDcA Copyright © 2014, 2011, 2008 Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

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14. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnQ2-w5fzcs (good) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnQ2-w5fzcs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjtLOH_nKwM (bad) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjtLOH_nKwM What is a catfish? What are the dangers of catfishing? What did you learn from this episode of Catfish?

15. Turn to page 70 of your textbook Read the section titled, “Social media and your real identity” Answer questions 1, 2, and follow the directions under the 2 nd question Work with a partner You may use your cell phone, ipad, or laptop to do this activity If you do not have a facebook page, use another social media account that you have (twitter, linkedin, instagram, etc.)

16. Chapter 4