1. Dating Violence

2. What to know… Date abuse is any hurtful or unwanted behavior done to another person by a dating partner It can be physical, verbal, emotional, or sexual Both men and women can be abusers 1/3 of all high school and college aged students experience date abuse in some form

3. Physical Abuse Hitting Punching Kicking Shoving Biting Choking Throwing Things Presentation of a weapons

4. Verbal Abuse Name-Calling Put Downs Swearing Threats Shouting Public Humiliation Belittling Comments

5. Emotional Abuse Often results from a LACK of behavior Ignoring or giving the “silent treatment” Not following through on promises Breaking plans at the last minute Withholding attention or affection

6. Sexual Abuse Any hurtful or unwanted bodily contact that may be sexual in nature –  Hugging  Kissing  Touching  Forced Interactions

7. Statistics Nearly 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year. One in three adolescents in the U.S. is a victim of physical, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner, a figure that far exceeds rates of other types of youth violence. One in 10 high school students has been purposefully hit, slapped or physically hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend. One quarter of high school girls have been victims of physical or sexual abuse.

8. Cycle of Abuse

9. Why do abusers abuse?

10. Statistics Girls and young women between the ages of 16 and 24 experience the highest rate of intimate partner violence -- almost triple the national average. Violent behavior typically begins between the ages of 12 and 18. The severity of intimate partner violence is often greater in cases where the pattern of abuse was established in adolescence. About 72% of eighth and ninth graders are “dating".

11. Statistics Only 33% of teens who were in a violent relationship ever told anyone about the abuse. Eighty one percent of parents believe teen dating violence is not an issue or admit they don’t know if it’s an issue. A teen’s confusion about the law and their desire for confidentiality are two of the most significant barriers stopping young victims of abuse from seeking help.

13. Behaviors to be Aware of Jealousy, isolation, possessiveness/restriction of freedom Using Threats, anger, or intimidation to control Destroying personal property Coming from an abusive family Checking of phone/email/social media accounts Constant texting/calling/social media posts

14. Resources/Help Trusted Adult  NOT THE ABUSER Counselor loveisrespect.org National Center for Trauma Between Friends Chicago