1. 1 1. Challenges that can come our way ME God TraditionalRadical Human nature ColleaguesAuthority Family

2. 2 We cope - escape God - stop praying Traditional/Radical - fail to love all Colleagues - withdraw Authority - ignore Family - neglect Human nature - ignore needs

3. 3 We give way.... God - fail to link God with reality Traditional/Radical - uncritical identification Colleagues - spend too much time on them Authority - excessive defference Family - into safe warmth Human Nature - allow fantasy world to develop

4. 4 By insulating ourselves Building a tough exterior Adopt worldly methods of leadership Try to control everything

5. 5 Escape Into new work Into fantasy Into ‘burn out’ Into breakdown

6. 6 Acceptance Self knowledge God knowledge

7. 7 Idealisation Deprivation Compensation Competition Idolisation Depression

8. 8 2. Leadership and power Positional power Resources power Personality power Experiential power The power of knowledge Weak power

9. 9 3. Formation - Erving Goffman - The presentation of self in everyday life Created a model of personality that was based on the dynamic interrelation of human beings from early childhood and the way this affected the interaction between ourselves and our audience

10. 10 Examples Mark Craig Sarah

11. 11 Front stage / Back stage Front stage - what we make available to others Back stage - where we protect ourselves

12. 12 Biblical examples Gen 3 Is 39.15 Matt 6 1 Cor 9.22

13. 13 The next stage Coming to a place of safety both on the front stage and back stage so that we can have mobility between the two