1. Table Manners & Proper Etiquette while Dating
Teen Living

3. K-L-D Chart (Create this chart on the Back of your Unit 4 packet)
LEARN
DO/GOAL
KNOW

4. Write down what you KNOW about proper manners and etiquette
KNOW-L-D
LEARN
DO/GOAL
KNOW
Write down what you KNOW about proper manners and etiquette

5. K-LEARN-D
LEARN
DO/GOAL
KNOW
As we go through the rules of etiquette and manners, write down what you LEARN.

6. K-L- DO! LEARN DO/GOAL KNOW
WRITE DOWN AT LEAST TWO GOALS OF HOW YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR MANNERS/ ETIQUETTE

7. MR. Baseball Video Clip

8. You will be judged by your manners
Why Manners?
Manners are decided by society. History has stated them as adapted from royalty
Know that manners differ from one culture to another. If you are living or traveling abroad, you may wish to do some research beforehand.
You will be judged by your manners

9. Table etiquette - courtesy shown by good manners at meals
Table manners reflect part of your personality to others
Makes eating a pleasant experience for everyone
Most rules of etiquette involve common sense and consideration of other people

10. Common Rules of Etiquette
Sit down from the left side of your chair

11. Common Rules of Etiquette
Assist with passing of foods when appropriate; pass to the right

12. Pretty Woman Video Clip

13. Common Rules of Etiquette
Use flatware from the outside in

14. HOOK VIDEO CLIP

15. Common Rules of Etiquette
NAPKIN
Place on lap before starting to eat; cover your mouth and nose if you must cough or sneeze
Leave on your chair if leaving the table and returning during a meal
Leave to the left of the plate when finished with the meal

16. Common Rules of Etiquette
When eating with a small group wait until everyone is served before eating

17. Common Rules of Etiquette
Follow actions of host/hostess as a guide when dining in someone’s home

18. Common Rules of Etiquette
Avoid talking with food in your mouth; chew with your mouth closed

19. Common Rules of Etiquette
Cut food into bite-size pieces as you eat
Cut meat one bite at a time

20. CURSE OF THE BLACK PEARL VIDEO CLIP

21. Common Rules of Etiquette
Sit up straight; avoid leaning on elbows while eating

22. Common Rules of Etiquette
Place spoon on soup plate rather than the bowl/cup when finished eating

23. Common Rules of Etiquette
Place the knife and fork on the plate with the handles parallel to the edge of the table when finished eating

24. Common Rules of Etiquette
Break one piece of bread/roll and butter one piece at a time

25. Common Rules of Etiquette
Place butter on your own plate before buttering your bread/roll

26. PRINCESS DIARIES VIDEO CLIP

27. CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

30. Cell Phone Etiquette
Turn your phone on silent/vibrate when you go to a restaurant or sit down to eat at someone’s home.

31. CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE
2) If you are expecting an urgent call during dinner, let your date/guests know up front and explain why it is necessary to answer.

32. CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE
3) If you do get an urgent call, excuse yourself from the table to take the call (but stay in view). Make the call as quick as possible.

33. DO NOT HAVE YOUR PHONE OUT AT DINNER…. EVER!
CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE
4) Do NOT check your phone at the dinner table if it vibrates. If you MUST check it, do so discreetly under the table.
DO NOT HAVE YOUR PHONE OUT AT DINNER…. EVER!

34. CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE
5) Never take a picture of your date/guests or the food unless they have asked you to do so.

35. AT & T COMMERCIAL

36. What do you think about tipping? Is it necessary? Do you ALWAYS tip?

37. Tipping Etiquette

38. Tipping Etiquette
Good service= a tip of 18% (15% - 20%) of the pre-tax bill
Excellent service= 20%
If your experience was so poor that you feel the server has earned no tip, you should contact the establishment’s manager and discuss your displeasure with him/her.

39. TIPPING ETIQUETTE
In which situations/establishments do you leave a tip – at McDonald’s or at Olive Garden?

40. TIPPING ETIQUETTE
FULL SERVICE RESTAURANT: Leave a customary tip (15% - 20%)
BUFFET STYLE (provide beverage and fresh plate service) : Lesser amount (5% - 10%)
FAST FOOD RESTAURANTS: No tip is necessary

41. When do restaurants automatically include a gratuity on your bill?
TIPPING ETIQUETTE
When do restaurants automatically include a gratuity on your bill?

42. TIPPING ETIQUETTE
Many restaurants automatically charge 18% of the bill on parties of 8 or more.
May charge different percentages on either smaller or larger groups.

43. TIPPING ETIQUETTE Is it really necessary to leave a tip?
Have you heard of sub-minimum wage?

44. TIPPING ETIQUETTE
In Utah (and many other states) servers in restaurants may earn only $2.13 per hour.
Tips are an assumed/built-in portion of their earnings.

45. The Ultimate Gift Video CLIP