2. 1 ROLES: Def: Certain behaviors or patterns that you are expected to follow as a result of your position or responsibility.

3. 2 ROLES: Ex. Student/Teacher, child, brother/sister, friend, teammate, etc.

4. 3 Learn to share with your siblings!

5. 4 FACADES : Def: False fronts or masks we use to give a different impression of ourselves.

6. 5 FACADES: Ex. Jock, brain, tough guy, rich kid, clown, preps, skaters, druggies, emo, geeks, etc…. (cliques)

7. 6 FACADES: REASONS: -protection lunch box -impress-friendship/acceptance -low self-esteem

8. 7 P. T R A I T S F A C A D E S ROLES Roles determine what traits and facades you use.

9. 8 SELF-ESTEEM: Def. Feeling we have of ourselves; our self worth. (clone) $ (self talk)

10. 9 SELF-ESTEEM: Reasons for high or low self- esteem? Egotism- too high a level of self-esteem.

11. 10 Believe in yourself!

12. 11 Be brave!

13. 12SELF-ESTEEM: Ways to improve? 1 Identity 2 Belongingness 3 Competence 4 Boundaries

14. 13 Michael Jordan and failure!

15. 14 PEER PRESSURE: Def: doing something because others your own age influence you; or you think they expect you to do it.

16. 15 Come on guys, it’ll be fun!

17. 16 PEER PRESSURE: 75% of the time we give in. Why? 90% of the time=bad!

18. 17 PEER PRESSURE: How to AVOID?: “No”, change subject, walk away,better friends, excuses….