1. Reality Check What a new generation really thinks about Christianity … and why it matters Kevin Bowman, kevinb@cordovachurch.comkevinb@cordovachurch.com Dave Davis, daved@cordovachurch.comdaved@cordovachurch.com PowerPoint download, www.cordovachurch.com/realitywww.cordovachurch.com/reality

2. Anti-homosexual Current perception – Christians show contempt for gays & lesbians Goal perception – Christians show compassion & love to all people, regardless of their lifestyle Before we start: Thank you! 16-29 year olds Unfavorable ImageOutsidersChurchgoers Anti-homosexual91%80%

3. Recap Why this perception exists – The extreme: High-profile media grabbers – The subtle: Accepted & justified insensitive action – The omitted: Lack of balanced response Shifting values – As this generation becomes the next, homosexuality will continue to gain acceptance Clearing the air – Homosexuals are incapable of acting morally – Homosexuality is simple; black & white

4. Is all sexual sin the same?

5. Separation of church and sex Sexual sin is more than gay or straight; a long list – Sex outside of marriage (Matthew 15:19) – Lust (desire) & sexual fantasy (Matthew 5:28) – Flirtation, joking, & comments (Ephesians 5:3) – Not fulfilling your spouse’s needs (1 Corinthians 7:5) Sexuality is more than only good and only bad; it’s part of our created nature that’s often in need of repair – Homosexuality may be more “obvious,” but no worse

6. Do you think ….. is going to hell?

7. Demilitarizing It is not Christians vs. homosexuals – It’s not a badge of honor; we don’t need to be defined by being anti-homosexual – As Christians, we should be seen as pro-love rather than anti-anything – Our battle should be waged against our own sin This is not a deal-breaker – Homosexuality is not a ticket to hell any more than heterosexuality is a ticket to heaven

8. So… are we preaching tolerance?

9. People are people Acknowledging character – Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, self-control Acknowledging feelings – Homosexuals are no less capable of love & no less susceptible to stress, pain, suffering More than tolerating & coexisting – It’s being invested & developing genuine relationship

10. Next week Finish homosexual; begin Sheltered Feedback & resources – Kevin Bowman, kevinb@cordovachurch.comkevinb@cordovachurch.com – Dave Davis, daved@cordovachurch.comdaved@cordovachurch.com – PowerPoint download, www.cordovachurch.com/realitywww.cordovachurch.com/reality