1. PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT K V V NARASIMHA RAO DEE STATE DAM SAFETY ORGANISATION CDO

2. SMILE SMILE

3. It costs you nothing Moreover it adds value to your face

4. YOU ARE SPECIAL YOU ARE SPECIAL&UNIQUE

5. PERSONALITY The aggregate and integration of all the different characterstics of an individual – psychological, intellectual, emotional, physical etc. The aggregate and integration of all the different characterstics of an individual – psychological, intellectual, emotional, physical etc.

6. Your personality is what makes you unique – a distinct individual in a sea of humanity with your own way of thinking and doing things. Your personality is what makes you unique – a distinct individual in a sea of humanity with your own way of thinking and doing things.

7. Why Personality Development? Time Famine Time Famine Change Change No rehearsals in life No rehearsals in life Global village Global village More choices & opportunities More choices & opportunities

8. Premium on personal productivity Pace and Pressures of life – loosing control of life

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10. Ex: Role in Organisation Expectations of Superiors: Expectations of Superiors: Responsibility Responsibility Self Confidence Self Confidence Honesty Honesty Capacity to take +ve criticism Capacity to take +ve criticism Judgement Judgement Discipline & self control Discipline & self control Involvement Involvement

11. Expectations of Subordinates: Expectations of Subordinates: Respect for others Respect for others Willingness to share information Willingness to share information Appreciation Appreciation Encouragement Encouragement Fair play & justice Fair play & justice Helpfulness Helpfulness Accessibility Accessibility Loyalty Loyalty

12. Expectations of colleagues: Expectations of colleagues: Co operation Co operation Loyalty Loyalty Frankness Frankness Modesty Modesty Respect & Courtesy Respect & Courtesy

13. What is EXPECTED? Peace Peace Productivity ( success ) Productivity ( success ) happiness happiness

14. PEACE : –Having serenity,balance and harmony through control of events PRODUCTIVITY: Sense of ACCOMLISHMENT & Sense of SELF WORTH HAPPINESS: Sense of WELL BEING FEEL GOOD FACTOR

15. HOW? 4T`s

16. Thought  feeling emotion action habit character destiny + ve thinking

17. Talk --  Talk --  self talk  conversation  discussion-  argument COMMUNICATION

18. Task  purpose  goal  achievment  growth Task  purpose  goal  achievment  growth KNOWLEDGE, SKILL, ATTITUDE

19. TIME = Resource TIME = Resource IRRICOVERABLE IRRICOVERABLE

20. Effective process to RESULT Programm ing BeliefsAttitudeFeelingBehaviorResult

21. Thoughts /Thinking: “ Change thinking to change life” “ Change thinking to change life” Feeling: “Good”

22. Emotion: Emotions that motivate us in most of our actions. 1. Fear: “ I have to” Fear of loss/ poverty Fear of old age Fear of criticism / disapproval Fear of ill health Fear of failure Fear of rejection Fear > FaithStress Fear < FaithConfidence

23. 2. DUTY“ I OUGHT TO” 2. DUTY“ I OUGHT TO” 3. LOVE / DESIRE “ I WANT TO” 3. LOVE / DESIRE “ I WANT TO” “ The things we do or refrain from doing because of fear greatly outweigh the number of things we do because of desire”

24. Action / Behaviour Behaviour is a reflection of what you truly believe Behaviour is a reflection of what you truly believe Never act out of negative emotions

25. Habit “ Repeated action” “ Repeated action” “ Habits are easy to form and difficult to break” Ten bad habits acting as progress obstructers: Ten bad habits acting as progress obstructers: No proiritising perfectionism Procrastinationnon focus Fear of change impunctuality Escapismlying Purposeless lifejealousy

26. character “Doing what you say you`re doing” “Doing what you say you`re doing” “ Adversity shows the man`s character” “ Adversity shows the man`s character”

27. DESTINY desired out come … happiness desired out come … happiness

28. POSITIVE THINKING “ Proactive” “ Proactive” “ Not focusing on obstacles” “ Not focusing on obstacles” For success in globalisation “ Lateral thinking “ “ out of box thinking” “ think different”

29. A t t I t u d e “ perspectives from which we view life” “ perspectives from which we view life” Programming creates beliefs Beliefs creates attitudes Attitudes creates feelings Feelings creates actions Actions creates results

30. PMA: A perspective which allows one to see the “ opportunities “ ahead and set his sights to reach them. PMA: A perspective which allows one to see the “ opportunities “ ahead and set his sights to reach them. Our attitudes are created and controlled or influenced by our “ beliefs”

31. STEPS TO PMA: Think, but don`t react Become a “how” thinker Believe u can and u can Improve self image

32. DEVELOPMENT BEGINS WITH REVIEWING RESPONDING VALUING -- -- placing worth ORGANISING-- system of beliefs and hierarchy ACT ---- --- in accordance with the value system

33. Improving self image “YOU`RE BETTER THAN YOU THINK” “PUT THE PAST IN THE PAST” “BUILD ON YOUR STRENGTHS” “ACCEPT YOURSELF – UNCONDITIONALLY” “DON`T ALLOW OTHERS TO DEFINE YOUR WORTH” “PUT WHAT YOU WANT FIRST”

34. Goals Planned conflict with the status quo Planned conflict with the status quo SMART goals SMART goals Three obstacles to leaving comfort zones Three obstacles to leaving comfort zones 1.The invisible committee 2. Walls 3.Fear of change

35. T I M E Stop thinking “Time management” and start thinking “ event control” Stop thinking “Time management” and start thinking “ event control” Greater event control  more productivity -  Self Esteem Greater event control  more productivity -  Self Esteem

36. Time Robbers Time Robbers Imposed on usself –inflectedInterruptions Failure to delegateUnclear job description Poor attitudePoor communicationFailure to listenShifting prioritiesUnfinished tasksConflicting prioritiesPoor planningLack of authorityCluttered work placeUntrained staffPerfectionism

37. Solution to Managing Time Solution to Managing Time PrioritisePlanDelegateSet goalsStructure each dayValue timeGet organised

38. Evaluation of Individual Performance {IA + AA}A = IHP {IA + AA}A = IHP IA Inborn attributes IA Inborn attributes (mental ability, tendency, temperment) AA Acquired attributes AA Acquired attributes ( knowledge,skill,talent,expression,ability) ( knowledge,skill,talent,expression,ability) A Attitude ** This factor plays a major role

39. What will you do with your future? What will you do with your future?

40. You have 2 choices really….. You have 2 choices really…..

41. You can choose to just survive.. You can choose to just survive..

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44. You can choose to make a difference. You can choose to make a difference.

45. `but….. Know this

46. Shape your Future Develop your ‘ vision ” Develop your ‘ vision ” Define your ” dream ” Define your ” dream ” Set your “ goals ” Set your “ goals ” Work out your “ action plan ” Work out your “ action plan ” Develop the right habits Develop the right habits Then…….. Then……..

47. “ JUST DO IT”

48. NEEDS Belief windo w Rules Behaviour patterns Results

49. NEEDS TO LIVE safe & secure TO LOVE & BE LOVED gives “Purpose ” TO FEEL IMPORNANT Self esteem TO EXPERIENCE VARIETY

50. Our Beliefs can be reflection of our values. Our Beliefs can be reflection of our values. Ex: Regarding self esteem Ex: Regarding self esteem My worth as a person is determined by My worth as a person is determined by -the praise I receive from others - the things I own - the job I hold - the way I look - the kind of person I marry - any combination of the above - none of the above

51. REMEMBER For having WINNING attitude “ LEAVE THE PAST LIVE THE PRESENT LIVE THE PRESENT LOVE THE FUTURE ” LOVE THE FUTURE ”

52. WHEN! WHEN!

53. “ Some day, when I get time, I`m going to…………………” “ Some day, when I get time, I`m going to…………………”

54. If not NOW ! If not NOW ! WHEN? WHEN?

55. “Your task is to build a better world” said God And I answered “ But HOW? The world is such a vast place, and oh so complicated now I am small and helpless, there is nothing much I can do”

56. But God in all His wisdom said, But God in all His wisdom said, ” Just build a better you! “

57. Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary offools

58. Keep SMILing Keep SMILing with PMA with PMA

59. THANK YOU THANK YOU