1. Dr. Rose Gamblin, PhD The Health Connection PO Box 413 Smithsburg, MD 21783

2. This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou ‘canst not then be false to any man. —William Shakespeare

3. Number of Protective Factors

4.  Parental Supervision  Parent and Child Relationship  Parent's Involvement in Child's Activities  Self-control/Boundaries  Commitment to School  Child’s Attachment to Teachers  Parent's Positive Values About College

5.  Parent's Positive Evaluation of Peers  Peers Have Conventional Values  Child's Involvement in Religious Activities  Child's Involvement in Prosocial Activities  Child Is Close to an Adult Outside the Family  Timely and Appropriate Information  Child’s Resilience  Child's Positive Self-Worth

6. Self- Worth Family Peers Community Genetics

7. Self (ME)

8. Family

9. Peers

10. Community

11. Genetics No one is born an addict.

12. Insanity is genetic... You inherit it from your kids!

13. Self (Child)

14.  Bonding  Symbiosis  Emotional Object Constancy  Separation and Individuation  Independence

15.  Hatching: “Mommy and Me Aren’t the Same” (Birth to 10 months)  Practicing: “I Can do Anything!” (10 months to 18 months)  Rapprochement: “I Can’t Do Everything” (18 months to 3 years)

16.  Anger  Ownership  No

17.  Help your child feel safe enough to say no.  Help your child respect when others say no.

18. The most common element surrounding ALL Eating Disorders is the inherent presence of a low self-worth Among females ages 15-24 with eating disorders, the mortality rate is 12 times higher than the annual death rate of all causes of death in the general population.

19. Eating Disorders are about trying to make your whole life better through food and eating (or lack of).

20. Eating Disorders are about seeking approval and acceptance from everyone through negative attention.

21. Eating Disorders are about being convinced that your whole self-worth is hinged on what you weigh and how you look.

22. Eating Disorders are about attempting to control your life and emotions through food/lack of food -- and are like a huge neon sign saying "look how out of control I really feel"

24.  Anorexia Nervosa  Bulimia Nervosa  Compulsive Overeating  Binge Eating Disorder

48.  Take the self-worth survey  Affirm, affirm, affirm  Reflect on Your Experiences

49. Protective Factor: Building Drug-free Communities Gate-way Topic: Prescription and Over-the-Counter Drugs

51.  Coates, S.W., John Bowlby and Margaret S. Mahler: Their lives and theories  Gamblin, R. A. (2010). Life Skills Curriculum. Hagerstown, MD: Autumn House  Mahler, S. and Pine, M.M. and F., Bergman, A. (1973). The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant, New York: Basic Books.  Mitchell, S.A., and Black, M.J. (1995). Freud and Beyond. New York: Basic Books.  Notes on the development of basic moods: the depressive affect. In Drives, Affects, Behavior, vol. 2, ed Max Schur, NY: International Universities Press, pp. 161-169.  Smith, C.; Lizotte, A.J.; Thornberry, T.P.; and Krohn, M.D. Resilient youth: Identifying factors that prevent high-risk youth from engaging in delinquency and drug use. In: Hagan, J., ed. Delinquency and Disrepute in the Life Course. Greenwich, CT: JAI Press, 1995, pp. 217-247.  Thoughts about development and individuation. Psychoanalytic Study of the Child, 1963.

52. Nov. 9 Building Drug-free Communities Prescription and OTC Drugs Nov. 16 Curiosity/Inhalants Nov. 23 Resilience/Bullying and Violence