1. Nonverbal Communication and Effective Listening

2. D.A.R.E. Review Verbal Communication
Did anyone practice confident communication skills this week? 2

3. When we communicate, how we say something is as important as what we say.

4. What is Nonverbal communication?
Examples? 4

5. We can tell how others feel based on their nonverbal communication, their behavior, etc. Then we can decide how to be effective when we communicate with them. 5

6. Last week we talked about confident communication
Last week we talked about confident communication. We also learned it is often a two-way conversation. It involves both speaking and listening. 6

7. What do you notice about someone who is not listening?
Examples: 7

8. We can see that it’s really important that you use you nonverbal skills to show that you are a good listener when communicating with people. 8

9. Effective Listening:
Showing the other person through verbal and nonverbal communication that you are paying attention.

10. Empathy:
putting ourselves in other people’s shoes and understanding what they are feeling.

11. D.A.R.E. Activity
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12. Bullying

13. Bullying:
an aggressive or unwanted behavior used again and again to isolate, harm, or control another person.
Repeated
Intentional, harmful, hurtful
Victim unable to stop it

14. D.A.R.E. Question
Forms of Bullying
Examples? 14

15. Forms of Bullying Verbal Social Physical Verbal Social Physical
Name calling, teasing
Social
Leaving someone out, gossip
Physical
Pushing, shoving
Verbal
Name calling, teasing
Social
Leaving someone out, gossip
Physical
Pushing, shoving
Cyber bullying
Texting, , social networks

16. Public or private?
Most bullying almost always occurs in front of other people. Most people that witness this behavior want to do something, but don’t.
What is the name of this person? 16

17. Bystander:
Someone who witnesses bullying who has the opportunity to help.
3 types of bystanders

18. Hurtful Bystander: Encourages bully Laughing with bully
cheering bully on
Joins in the bullying

19. Passive Bystander:
Watches
Does Nothing
Bully thinks it is ok

20. Helpful Bystander: Verbally defends victim Quickly reports
Helps victim walk away
Offers emotional support

21. Why do they not help? Fear that others would make fun of them
Think someone else will step in and help
Afraid it could make the situation worse
Do not know what to do
Might lose friends 21

22. Tattling or Telling?
Some people are afraid to report bullying because they do not want to tattle on others, but there is a difference between tattling and telling….what is the difference? 22

23. Tattling: Tattling: Telling:
When you want to get someone in trouble for harmless behavior.
When you want to get someone in trouble for harmless behavior.
Providing information to a trusted adult to help someone or keep them safe.
Telling:

24. Telling=Reporting
What are some of the ways to report bullying? 24

25. Reporting:
When you need help from a trusted adult to keep someone safe from being bullied.

26. D.A.R.E. Activity Page 24 Safe & Responsible Ways to Report Bullying26

27. 5 W’s when reporting: WHO was being bullied?
WHAT happened that made you think this was bullying?
WHEN did this happen?
WHERE did this happen?
WHY do you think one is bullying the other?

28. 5 W’s:
WHO
WHAT
WHEN
WHERE
WHY

29. D.A.R.E. Activity
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30. D.A.R.E. Glossary
Page 38
8 terms 30

31. D.A.R.E. Journal Page 34 Nonverbal communication is…
In the next week, I will demonstrate that I am listening by…
The 5 “W’s” of safely reporting are…
If I see someone being bullied, I will remember to… 31

32. My D.A.R.E. Report
Page 23 32

33. D.A.R.E. Report Page 23 Rough Draft Due Week of Dec 7th
Final Draft due by
Week of Dec 14th 33

34. My D.A.R.E. Report Intro Paragraph 2-3 supporting paragraphs
Summary Paragraph
What is needed?
Grammar
Spelling
Topic
DDMM 34

35. My D.A.R.E. Report Safe & Responsible Choices DDMM
Alcohol & tobacco facts
Risks & Consequences
Peer Pressure
Handling Stress
Confident Communication
Nonverbal Communication
Listening
Ways to report bullying 35

36. My D.A.R.E. Report Next week… Being a Good Citizen
Helping others and getting help
Rx Abuse 36

37. My D.A.R.E. Report Contents: What you have learned…
How you have used DDMM
How you plan to make safe & responsible choices…. 37