1. 1. Get an handout and a glue from the front table 2. Enter the following into your TOC and label these pages: 9/14: 12L Respect and Gender Activity 9/14: 12R Respect Notes 9/14: 13L-13R Weekly #4: Respect *DO NOT GLUE ANYTHING YET!

2. 1. First, complete the chart for question #1. You may work with 2 other people, but they must be of the same gender as you. 2. Then, complete the chart for question #2 3. Do not do the reflection yet.

3. Alternative names for females, women, girls Alternative names for males, men, boys Positive nicknamesNegative nicknames

4. After our discussion, you may now complete the reflection in your notebook on page 12L. Attach the handout on top of your reflection on that page.

5. R ESPECT Being kind to others and treating people the way we want to be treated Attitude Preparation Perseverance Respect Honesty Integrity Courage Appreciation Self-Control Empathy Gratitude Tolerance Duty Loyalty Responsibility Compassion Leadership Character Week 4

6. Respect “ To have respect for ourselves guides our morals; to have deference (respect) for others governs our manners. ” -Laurence Sterne Attitude Preparation Perseverance Respect Honesty Integrity Courage Appreciation Self-Control Empathy Gratitude Tolerance Duty Loyalty Responsibility Compassion Leadership Character

7. 9/14: R.E.S.P.E.C.T pg. What is respect? How does one show respect? How do you gain respect? How does our society view respect? Are you respectful? Who deserves respect? Is respect important?

8. Respect Across Varying Cultures: In India, elders are given priority over younger people in a range of social settings. For example, it is impolite for a young person to be sitting while an elder is standing, in this case, even if there is a free seat, the young person will offer their seat to the elder in concern. Traditionally, shoes are not worn in households in nations such as India, Indonesia, China, Japan, Korea, Vietnam, Philippines, Thailand, and Malaysia, nor in certain holy places elsewhere, such as mosque and many Buddhist or Hindu temples. The typical expectation is that shoes will be removed in the foyer and left neatly with toes pointing outside.

9. Respect Across Varying Cultures: In England, politeness, reserve, and restraint are admired. The English are courteous, unassuming, and are very proud of their long and rich history. Because of this, proper etiquette is expected. For example, it is impolite to rest your elbows on the table during dinner. What other types of etiquette (or manners) can you think of that would demonstrate respect? Handshakes, bowing in many Asian cultures, waiting to eat until everyone has been served, guests of honor are seated at the head of the table, etc. In some cultures, a loud burp following a meal is a sign of appreciation of good food! However, burping would be quite disrespectful in other settings.

10. Q#1) Write 1 example of how people in other countries show respect based on what you just heard.

11. How does our society address the idea of respect? Respect toward the American Flag: The flag should never touch anything beneath it. Contrary to an urban legend, the flag code does not state that a flag that touches the ground should be burned. Instead, it is considered disrespectful to the flag and the flag in question should be moved in such a manner so it is not touching the ground. Respect is given to those serving in our military, regardless of personal views toward war. Eye contact is a sign of respect Using words like “Please, Thank you, Good morning,” etc. SMILE

12. Q#2) Write 1 example of how people in the Unites Sates show respect. Q#3) What’s another example that you can think of that people show respect?

13. Respecting your parents: Q4: How do you think your parents want to be shown respect? Q5: How can your parents show YOU respect? Q6: Which is easier to do: respecting your parents or respecting your teachers?

14. Respecting Your Peers Q7: What are some ways that you show respect to your friends? Q8: How do you know when you are being disrespected? Q9: What do you do when you feel disrespected?

15. Take care of yourself. Prepare for your future. Maintain positive relationships. BE GOOD, DO GOOD! Make goals and work toward achieving them. Have a Good Attitude! Take care of your health. Respect your body. Try your best! Be happy! Take pride in your achievements! Be You!

16. Q#10) In your own words, what do you think it means to have self-respect?

17. Weekly Assign. #4: Respect pg. 13L-13R – Due ***Friday, 9/18 Answer workbook questions from pages 33-34 Please write your responses in your composition notebook on pages 13L-13R. Please answer each question with a paragraph response in paragraph format. Each paragraph should be at least 5 sentences. Number your paragraph answers #1, 2, &3. A philosophy is how you feel about something (#1)

18. * Now, complete your Respect Ethical Dilemma in your workbook on pages 31-32 and get it stamped before you leave!

19. * 9/15: Do NOW: 1. We need the whole period for the movie 2. No notes/questions 3. QUICKLY and QUIETLY sit don, so I can read the overview for you and we can start

20. 1. Get a Role Model Book 2. Enter into your TOC 9/16: pg. 14L: Respect Quickwrite 9/16: pg. 14R: Dwight D Eisenhower

21. 9/16: Respect Quickwrite pg. 14L *Don’t write the questions. Use complete sentences and refer to the questions in your answers. 1.Who is someone that you have a lot of respect for? 2.Why do you have respect for them? 3.How did they earn your respect? 4.How do you show your respect to them?

22. 1. Read The story about Dwight D. Eisenhower by yourself 2. Take notes using the ASE notetaking strategy (see the poster for help  ) 3. When you finish, put the Role model book away & bring your notebook to me to get your notes stamped 4. Pick up a quiz and take the quiz. *You may use your notes on the quiz, but not a Role Model Book.

23. 1. Get these items from the front table: * a colored piece of paper, * 2-3 markers, * a notebook check slip from the front table 2. Enter into your TOC: 9/17:pg. 15L Presentation Notes 3. Review your notebook and get ready for the notebook check.

24. Quickwrite: 9/17: Mini poster You have been introduced to 4 character traits, so far: 1.Attitude 2.Preparation 3.Perseverance 4.Respect Which character trait do you think is most important to you RIGHT NOW, as a 9 th grade student and WHY? (4-5 sentence response) Requirements: Trait, response, name, color/pictures.

25. 9/18: Respect Reflection pg: 15R 1.How did Coach Carter and Dwight D. Eisenhower teach and show respect? Make a chart like this to show your answer: 1.Why is it important to be a respectful person, in your own opinion? 2.Who is someone that is a good role model for respect in your own life and why? Coach CarterD.D. Eisenhower Taught respect by: Showed respect by:

26. D WIGHT D. E ISENHOWER Respect Attitude Preparation Perseverance Respect Honesty Integrity Courage Appreciation Self-Control Empathy Gratitude Tolerance Duty Loyalty Responsibility Compassion Leadership Character

27. D WIGHT D. E ISENHOWER  Dwight D. Eisenhower led one of the most infamous battles of WWII – The D-Day Invasion.  Dwight D. Eisenhower rose from a colonel in the United States Army to a 5-star general in just two years.  He was a strong leader and his philosophy was, “ In victory, spread the wealth and in defeat, accept full responsibility. ”  Not only did he earn countless people ’ s respect, Dwight D. Eisenhower also gave respect.  Dwight D. Eisenhower was the 34 th president of the United States. Respect Attitude Preparation Perseverance Respect Honesty Integrity Courage Appreciation Self-Control Empathy Gratitude Tolerance Duty Loyalty Responsibility Compassion Leadership Character

28. D WIGHT D. E ISENHOWER “ My ambition in the Army was to make everybody I worked for regretful when I was ordered to other duty. ” Respect Attitude Preparation Perseverance Respect Honesty Integrity Courage Appreciation Self-Control Empathy Gratitude Tolerance Duty Loyalty Responsibility Compassion Leadership Character

29. Ethical Monday  Ethical Dilemma – Defining Respect  Lecture - Respecting the Opposite Gender Character Movie Tuesday  Scenes & questions from Coach Carter Role Model Wednesday  Quiz on Chapter 4 – Dwight D. Eisenhower Basic Skill Thursday  Note Taking Strategies  Guest Speaker or Current Events Assignment Friday  Personal Creed About Respect in Relationships Respect Attitude Preparation Perseverance Respect Honesty Integrity Courage Appreciation Self-Control Empathy Gratitude Tolerance Duty Loyalty Responsibility Compassion Leadership Character