1. The Christian Must Be Very Careful in All Areas of Life Ephesians 5:15 “ See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise ” (KJV) Translated “diligently” (Matt. 2:8; Acts 18:25) Translated “perfect” (Luke 1:3; 1 Thess. 5:2) “ Be very careful, then, how you live - not as unwise, but as wise ” (NIV)

2. Worship Morals Friendships How We Study PersonalGodliness BusinessDealings The Christian Must Be Very Careful in All Areas of Life How We Treat Others Who We Date or Marry

3. General Principles #2 Beware The Unrighteous Evil companions corrupt (I Cor. 15:33), especially a spouse. –Solomon (I Kings 11:4) –Ahab (I Kings 21:25) Don’t think you will change them!

4. General Principles #4 Beware The Irresponsible Man A man must be willing to leave his father and mother. He must provide for his own. He must be the head of the house.

5. General Principles #5 Beware The Irresponsible Woman A woman must be willing to accept her role. She must be a home maker. Marriage is not for those who want to prove they are adults.

6. General Principles #6 Choose Someone Similar Similarity is the best predictor of marital happiness. It’s hard if what you like displeases your spouse. Certainly find someone with the same values.