1. V. Baker RN-BC, CDONA

2.  What is horizontal violence?  Why is it happening to me?  What can I do about it?  What should I expect?

3.  It can be: ◦ Verbal, physical, mental, emotional ◦ Obvious or hidden  It is a Behavior that is: ◦ insulting, frightening & worrisome ◦ Unprofessional & unacceptable

4.  Verbal ◦ Gossip, nasty remarks, rude responses, criticism  Physical ◦ Refusing to help, isolating, making faces  Mental ◦ Not sharing information, disrupting work  Emotional ◦ Complaining about to others, sharing secrets

5.  Have I ever had this happen to me?  Have I ever seen this happen?  Have I ever been the one doing it?

6. GiverReceiver  Openly criticized another  Kept someone out of ‘my’ group  Run the rumor mill  Blamed others  Complained about a co- worker instead of talking out the problem  Taken trouble home  Had trouble sleeping  Felt depressed because of work relations  Thought about quitting  Questioned “who am I?”

7.  When people ◦ Feel bad about themselves ◦ Don’t know how to cope ◦ Don’t know how to communicate ◦ Are unhappy with their lives ◦ Have control issues ◦ Choose to act mean

8.  Understand you have a CHOICE ◦ Choice to be mean or nice ◦ Choice to accept or address the issue ◦ Choice to let it make you better or bitter  Follow the “Golden Rule” ◦ Do unto others as you would have done to you Respect yourself and don’t let others bring you down

9.  Know what Horizontal Violence looks like  Practice looking at myself  Identify it when it happens  Call it what it is  Learn how to deal with it  Stand up for each other  Seek help or report it if needed

10.  Not what you say but HOW you say it  Take ownership  STOP! Let’s talk calmly in private  Refocus on the patient  “I feel…..”  Be respectful 2 wrongs don’t make a right

11.  Remember Kindergarten ◦ Share ◦ Play fair ◦ Wash your hands ◦ Say your sorry if you hurt someone ◦ When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.

12. Horizontal Violence Stress Satisfaction Turnover Care

13.  Horizontal Violence has NO place in LTC ◦ Increases stress, burnout & risk for errors ◦ Decreases Quality of Care, teamwork & happiness  Horizontal Violence has consequences ◦ It will be investigated, addressed & disciplined

14.  Been there  Done that  Look in the mirror  Make the right choice  Practice what I’ve learned  Help others  Expect support

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