1. https://www.youtube.com/watch ?v=ENrj5u_lrWw

2. Bereavement LO: to explore the word death and the language we use when someone dies,

3. The Language of Death

4. Why do people use ‘sayings’ or euphemisms about death? -For many, death is still a taboo subject we use euphemisms when uncomfortable -To protect children. Discuss if children/young people might find some words confusing or condescending e.g. Asleep/lost/gone away. Seek views on which words your pupils would prefer to be used. - For religious reasons. Pick out those which have a Christian basis e.g. in heaven. Any other religions represented? -To lessen the pain/make something good out of something very bad e.g. at rest, at peace, reunited with. Which imply that life carries on in some form? Do they lessen the pain or do they just confuse? -Professionals e.g. doctors and undertakers use the substitutes as much as anyone. (Some would say more so!) Should they? Are these the best way to send your wishes to someone?

5. Time to create and reflect… Task: You work for a card company, they want to create a new condolence card or poem, You need to be reflective and thoughtful, and to the point! You can choose who the card is for, a loved one, a friend, a parent, a brother or sister, or even a pet.

6. Is it okay to use humour in death? Some people often make (terrible) jokes at times of death, and use humour to show their hurt. Is that acceptable?

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