1. One person insisting on making all the decisions.

2. Disrespecting your personal space.

3. Wanting to be with you all the time.

4. Teasing that includes insults

5. Losing his or her temper when frustrated or disappointed

6. Making you wait around

7. Jealousy when you talk to other guys or girls

8. Blaming other people for his or her problems

9. Unrealistic expectations

10. Making demands

11. Quick involvement

12. Unrealistic expectations

13. Controlling behavior

14. Isolation of you from your peers, family, and hobbies

15. Blames others for making them feel a certain way

16. Hypersensitivity

17. Disrespectful and cruel to people you care about

18. Sudden mood changes

19. Breaking/striking objects

20. Force of any kind during an argument

21. Past battering/abusive history

22. “No I don’t want to go to Clark’s Burgers. We’re eating at Kim’s.”

23. Kissing you in the hallway even though it makes you uncomfortable.

24. “Hang out with me tonight instead of Sara. I’m your boyfriend after all.”

25. “Another donut? Maybe I should start calling you ‘Fatty.’”

26. “I HATE it when you don’t call when you say you will.”

27. “I’ll stop by sometime tonight. You’d better be there when I do.”

28. “I saw you staring at her.”

29. “I only got a C on that test because Mrs. Johns hates me.”

30. “You should help me with my math homework before you study for your Biology test. That’s what couples do.”

31. “I don’t like other guys looking at your legs. Don’t wear shorts unless you’re out with me.”

32. “I know we’ve only been dating for six months, but it feels like I’ve known you forever and think we should take the next step. Move in with me?”

33. “You need to choose me or baseball. I want to spend time with you every day afterschool.”

34. Anything related to you questioning who you are as an individual and changing your ways in order please your partner

35. “I know its Mike’s birthday, but you know we don’t get along too well. Stay in with me tonight. I promise we’ll have a better time, just us.”

36. “You’re the reason I’m angry. You know I don’t think it’s a good idea that you go to a concert without me.”

37. Overreacting to the little things

38. “Your sister is so ugly. Can’t you give her a makeover. I don’t think we can let her come to the mall with us until she gets one because her acne and bad fashion sense is embarrassing.”

39. Greeting you in a pleasant manner, then screaming at you soon after because you forgot your anniversary

40. “I punched a hole in the wall because I was frustrated. That’s better than punching you, right?”

41. Pulling you back by your shirt as you try to walk away

42. “I’m sorry. I just got out of a really toxic relationship. He would frustrate me and I just snapped and punched him. That won’t happen with you though.”