1. Reintegrating with Children Module Four

2. Three Things Identifying Concerns Celebrating Change Reintegration Tips

3. How Old Is Your Child?

4. Common Concerns Has my absence hurt my children? Will my child know me? How are they going to act? How will I become part of the family? How can I make up for lost time? Will we get along?

5. Activity: Opportunity Ladder Commit to an action that will get you to your goal Commit to a more deliberate action Take a baby step toward your goal

6. Infants- cry, fuss or pull away 1 to 3 - shy or clingy 3 to 5 - need time to warm up 6 to 12 - excited, extremely talkative Teens - “too cool” to show excitement Children’s Concerns and Reactions

7. What Parents Can Do Manage Discipline Go Slowly Get Involved Show Appreciation Get Help

8. Blended Families Lower expectations Unite with your partner Build trust and respect Ease into your role Form a new family identity Use your resources

9. Activity: My, Have You Grown! Socially Independence Physically Emotionally

10. Managing Expectations Discuss changes with your partner Maintain daily routines Ask your child to help Talk about new rules Share new rules with the family Go easy on child discipline

11. The best way to know what a child is thinking is to interact when they are most comfortable Communication and Quality Time

12. Activity: Brown Bag TV show Best friend Band or musician Food Game or toy Hairstyle Movie Dance

13. 1.Honor developmental ages and stages 2.Ask the at-home parent about changes 3.Appreciate your child’s contribution 4.Maintain routines and ask your child for help 5.Ask your partner for suggestions Reintegration Tips

14. 6.Celebrate growth and normalize change 7.Encourage the sharing of feelings 8.Discuss changes as a family 9.Be patient 10.Focus on loving your child Reintegration Tips

15. Parenting education and support Prenatal to younger than age 4 Voluntary program Professional home visitor Promotes resiliency Priority for deployed families New Parent Support Home Visitation Program

16.  Deployment and homecoming tips  Installation, community and national resources Deployment Support Handbook

17. Thank You! FFSC location Phone number Email Website Social media sites

18. We are here to serve! Your Return and Reunion Team Click to enter your name and title