1. Habit 2 Begin with End in Mind
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser

2. Habit 2 in Our Paradigms Feeling Thoughts Behavior
Begin with end in Mind
Feeling
Thoughts
Behavior
Image, picture, paradigm of the end of your life

3. Inner Guidance system
Circle of Concern
Circle of Influence

4. By Design or Default? People Principles Circle of Concern
Circle of Influence
We reactively live by the script handed to us by family/people/circumstances/past habits
Principles

5. Stimulus Response Self Awareness Conscience Imagination Will Power
Habit 1: you are creator
Habit 2: your first creation
Self Awareness
Conscience
Imagination
Will Power

6. Re-Scripting
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا قُوا أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًا)At-Tahrim:6(

7. Security: Sense of worth
CENTER
Guidance:
Source of direction
Wisdom:
capacity to act
Power: Balance

8. Identifying Your Centre
Sometimes not easy
Wrong center will limit your personal effectiveness
Depending upon external and internal conditions, center may vary
No consistent sense of direction
No persistent wisdom
No sense of self-worth

9. Empower your Proactivity
A Principle Center
Empower your Proactivity

10. Principle Centerdness
Security
Principle Centerdness
Wisdom
Guidance
Power

11. Principles Money Family Possessions Spouse Self Work Religion Pleasure
Enemy
Friend

12. Our Security Principles don’t react to anything Principles don’t die
They are common denominators
Tightly woven threads running with exactness, consistency, beauty and strength through the fibre of life
Bigger than people and circumstances
Principles don’t change but our understanding of them can

13. Wisdom and Guidance Correct maps
From the way things really are, have been and will be
Enable us to see where we want to go and how to get there

14. Personal Power Self-Awareness Knowledgeable Proactive
Unrestricted by the attitudes, behaviors and actions of others
Only limitation is: Natural consequences of Principles

15. A Principle Centered Person
فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَنِ النَّارِ وَأُدْخِلَ الْجَنَّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ )Ale-Imran:185(

16. Saving from Fire Entry into Jannah Money Family Possessions Spouse
Self
Work
Religion
Pleasure
Enemy
Friend

17. كُلُّكُمْ رَاعٍ وَكُلُّكُمْ مَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ
Abdullah bin Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of the people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects: a man is the guardian of his family and is responsible for his subjects, a woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and of his children and is responsible for them, and the slave of a man is a guardian of his master’s property and is responsible for it. Surely, everyone of you is a shepherd and responsible for his flock.” Source: Sahih Bukhari 6719; Sahih Muslim 1829

18. Principle Centeredness
Stand apart from emotion of the situation
Evaluate the options
Looking at balanced whole
You proactively chose the best option
Chose to ultimate values in life
You see things differently

19. Habit 2
Activity Time

20. In group of 7, answer all questions
What am I doing with my life right now? Does it make me happy? Do I feel fulfilled?
What did I like to do as a child?
What interests me most right now?
What are my unique traits and strengths?
What you want your list of accomplishments twenty years from now?
What are the ten things that are most rewarding to you today?

21. Write down…. What qualities you admire in a person?
What qualities you tried to adopt?
Imagine yourself twenty years from now…what you want your accomplishments to be?
Think of ten most rewarding things for you now?

22. Periodically Evaluate
Do you feel this mission statement represents the best within me?
Do you feel direction, purpose, challenge and motivation when you review your mission statement?
Are you living your life according to ideals and values that are incorporated in your mission statement?

23. A Destination and a Compass
Habit 2 and Family
A Destination and a Compass

24. Empowering aspect of Habit 2
Family awareness: Our ability to see ourselves as a family
Family conscience: The unity of the shared moral nature of everyone in the family and the clarity
Creative synergy: We hammered out the issues and came to something everyone could agree on
Social will: We all work together to make it happen

25. Family compass for direction

26. Three Watch outs
Don’t announce it
Don’t rush it
Don’t ignore it

27. To get in touch…. Dr. Kanwal Kaisser hbheadoffice@gmail.com
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