1. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept 3-5

2. Learning to Live-Safety Standard:  Students will develop safety and survival skills Indicators:  Identify appropriate and inappropriate touching  Describe personal safety habits  Identify resource people in the school and community  Explain how to seek the help of resource people in the school and community 3-5 Lesson Standards & Indicators are adapted from the SC Comprehensive School Counseling Model

3. Secrets What is a secret ? Something that you are not supposed to share with others...

4. Secrets Can secrets be both good and bad? What is the difference?

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6. Secrets Good secrets are things that can make you and somebody else very happy.

7. Secrets Good Secrets vs. Bad Secrets

8. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept Some secrets should never be kept. When Lord Henry started to tickle Alfred in a way that he did not like, was Alfred right to tell him to stop? When Lord Henry did not stop, what should Alfred have done?

9. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept Why didn't Alfred tell his mother about the touching and tickling right away? How might Alfred have been feeling?

10. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept When should Alfred have told his mother about what happened to him?

11. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept Should anyone tickle or touch your private parts?

12. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept If they do, what should you do?

13. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept What if the person says it is "our special secret"-should you keep that kind of secret?

14. Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept Sometimes there are good secrets, such as not telling your best friend about a surprise party planned for them, or not telling your brother or sister about a present your parents brought them. But sometimes there are bad secrets, such as someone touching you private parts. A secret such as this should never ever be kept. If someone tells you to keep a bad secret, what should you do?

15. Resource People in School & Community Who can you tell or go to for help? Any Trusted Adult

16. Standards & Indicators are adapted from the SC Comprehensive School Counseling Model "I Said No!" A kid-to-kid guide to keeping private parts private! By: Zack & Kimberly King "Do You Have a Secret?" By: Jennifer Moore-Mallinos Resources "Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept"" By: Jayneen Sanders